50. What are three ways in which you see us as different? What are three ways in which you see us as similar? Which of these are you most comfortable with? Couples are drawn together by differences as well as similarities. Sometimes we respond to differences because they fill our empty places. Sometimes we’re comfortable with similarities. You may look at one another’s differences now and say, “Oh, you’re so unique!” After a couple years of marriage you may say, “I knew you were different—but not this much!” You may see their differences as wrong and set out on a crusade to make the other
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