51. What qualities do you see in your parents that you expect to see in your future spouse? Most of us have subtle unexpressed expectations that what is positive in our parents will stay with us forever because our spouse is likely to have the same traits or qualities. That can put a huge burden on your partner. Identify those qualities and evaluate your expectations. And speaking of parents, observe the way your partner treats their parent of the opposite sex. It’s often a preview of what you can expect.
