99. Do you believe you and I should be honest about everything in our relationship, or should some things be kept private? If I asked your past partners if you were honest and trustworthy, how would they answer? Sometimes people let things slide during courtship in order to not rock the boat. They may even think they’ll sway you after you’re married. It won’t work. You need a person who is truthful and doesn’t bend the truth in any way. You need a partner who is honest with themselves and doesn’t practice self-deception. You need a person who is honest with you.