Intimate Communion: Awakening Your Sexual Essence

by David Deida

If a woman is dedicated to the practice of Intimate Communion, she will only trust a man who is committed to Truth more than he is to pleasing her-after all, how can she trust a man who can be swayed from his true path by the smile of a beautiful woman, even if it is her

We may not think about it, but sometimes we look to a place for the sexual energy that we may not be receiving in our intimate life.

If you want the company of the Masculine, go to a place like New York City. His intense energy will fill you to the brim and you won't be able to escape His massive and towering skyscrapers. You will learn to cut the mustard fast, because, although you're offered every possible opportunity for making it, He also keeps on going whether you are with

A key aspect of the Masculine sexual essence is its sense of true direction, or mission, in life. Thus, a man who has lost touch with his Masculine sexual essence becomes undirected and ambiguous at his core, and he seeks a mission in external sources. His life may begin to revolve around a football team, a business enterprise or

a political cause. He may become obsessed with himself, with his personal projects and even his car; but at his core, he is lost. In his deepest thoughts, he knows he has swerved from his course of true integrity. Such a man will only be able to give ambiguous love, for he fears that a commitment with a woman may cost him the freedom to do what he really wants to do when the time comes to do it. Therefore,

it is necessary for a man to find his strong and true purpose, and align his life with integrity, before he is really capable of being fu...

Finally, in the third stage, She discovers that when She is not looking for love She can relax as love-and then practice being love in Intimate Communion.

recommends. Yet, if he truly understood the Feminine heart-meter, he would put aside his questions and problem-solving and embrace his intimate partner with the caring force of love. He would be fully present with her, since her Feminine core will respond most strongly to the flow of love. Then, if

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is anything to talk about, they can do so with their hearts already full. Whereas the main concern of the Masculine is direction, the main co...

anti-Feminine attitude.

These practices of love in Intimate Communion are a counter-effort to our old habits of separation, withdrawal and punishment.

Orgasm (or TV or beer) is their chosen method for being released from their constricted sense of self. They are not yet awakened to the absolute freedom of their true nature, relaxing deeply into the vast openness of their true Being.

Feminine may find Herself surrendering to and hoping to be filled by intimate partners, family, food, sensual expenditures and social causes.