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The reality is that men are hurting and that the whole culture responds to them by saying, “Please do not tell us what you feel.”
Many women cannot hear male pain about love because it sounds like an indictment of female failure.
Work stands in the way of love for most men then because the long hours they work
often drain their energies; there is little or no time left for emotional labor, for doing the work of love.
No one has really tried to examine what men feel about the loss of time with children, partners, loved ones, and the loss of time for self-development.