Where should I start? If I’m really being honest, I am afraid to get critical feedback. A: That’s normal! Nobody really wants to hear criticism. Focus on the fact that you can only fix the problems you know about, and that if the person cares enough to make you aware of a problem they might also help you fix it. If you have a tendency toward perfectionism, remind yourself that you’re human and you’re going to make mistakes; in fact, that’s how you get better. Work on developing a “Not Yet” mindset, as described by Carol Dweck: “I heard about a high school in Chicago where students had to pass
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