“Our culture loves the notion of a soulmate, Devin. And it can be a heady idea, but even soulmates can’t be all things to you. Your soulmate needs teammates. Other people to support them in supporting and loving you. “You need those other people to support and love you. Not just one. Because if there’s anything we know for sure, it’s that one person cannot be all things to another person. And if they try, it’ll harm them, it’ll harm you, and ultimately, it’ll harm the relationship.”