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The long letting go could be the essence of parenthood
He was waiting for existence to part like a curtain, for a hand to extend and help him step through into a paradise regained.
He had reached that point – late thirties was common – when one’s parents set off on their downhill journey.
Was it possible, to throw his life away in order to be polite?
How easy it was to drift through an unchosen life, in a succession of reactions to events.
You think of your child as your dependant. Then, as he starts to pull away, you discover that you are a dependant too.
As late as the mid-nineties it was difficult to discover facts about anything or anyone, and no one minded at the time.
Time’s gathering compression was a commonplace among his old friends.
The retreating effects of alcohol dragged on their spirits.