in my workshops I ask participants to form groups of three and share their reflections on a series of questions. I give them one minute each, per question. The final question is “What are some of the ways in which your race(s) has shaped your life?” There are three consistent patterns that emerge in their answers. The first is how uncomfortable this question is for many white people. The second is how difficult it is for so many of us to answer with any depth or criticality. I have seen countless white people unable to fill the sixty seconds, awkwardly waiting out the time. This discomfort and
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