How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

by Logan Ury

it’s better to be a Satisficer.

And that’s why I want you to work toward becoming a Satisficer. The best choice of all is choosing to be happy.

You may be anxiously attached if you crave a lot of closeness but are insecure about your relationship’s future and your partner’s interest in you. You may be avoidantly attached if you feel uncomfortable with intimacy and value independence over connection. You may be securely attached if you are comfortable with intimacy, spending time alone, and drawing clear boundaries.

Key tip for your dating search Physical attraction can obscure long-term compatibility. Pay attention to whether or not you’re attracted to someone and focus less on how society would evaluate that person’s looks. Don’t prioritize lust over more important long-term factors.

Does their kindness make you feel relaxed and cared for? Or does their anxiety provoke your anxiety?

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