Now, I make no pretence to be more moral than my neighbours, and I will admit to you that I could not live under the same roof with such a woman and in daily contact with her without feeling a passionate regard for her. Do you blame me, Mr. Holmes?” “I do not blame you for feeling it. I should blame you if you expressed it, since this young lady was in a sense under your protection.”
EXACTLY
SHERLOCK EXPLAINING UNHEALTHY POWER DYNAMICS AND SELD CONTROL ALREADY IN THE 1920S
ITS NOT A NEW CONCEPT