Conversation #1: The Past What are three moments about your past that you feel define you? How do you think your childhood affects who you are today? Did your parents fight? What are your fears around relationship conflict? What traditions from your family do you want to carry on in our family? How did your family talk (or not talk) about sex when you were growing up? What did money represent in your family? What baggage from your family do you want to leave in the past?