EXERCISE: Answer the All About Us Questions Set aside one night per conversation. I recommend doing an activity together first to help you feel connected. Psychotherapist Esther Perel notes that one of the moments when we feel most attracted to our partners is when we admire their individual talents. Invest in that attraction by teaching each other a new skill. If one of you is a great cook, why not teach the other a new recipe? You also want to make the experience feel romantic. I mean, you’re talking about possibly getting married—what could be more romantic than that? Set the scene. Dress
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