When we fall victim to misfortune, it’s hard not to obsess, lament, or complain about all that we have lost. In fact, complaining is one of the easiest things to do. It’s so easy many of us do it incessantly: when someone is late to meet us, when our neighbors are too loud, when there are no parking spaces on the one day we are running late, when we watch the news, and so on.
