Turning Towards after Conflict In any relationship, ruptures are inevitable. Relationships are not static but an ongoing flow of harmony to disharmony, rupture and repair, connection, disconnection and back into connection again. We are all different from each other and so we are all eventually going to slip up, make mistakes, say things that we wish we could take back or forget things that are important to our partners. Even if we wanted to be, we can’t be perfectly present and attentive to our partners all the time, every time. What matters is not that we have ruptures, but how we repair
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