But I was learning what most people learn when they go about to lead others. You begin by wearing a mask and pretending to be a different person – a person that’s like you with all the doubts and fears and yieldings taken out. But the more you put that mask on, the harder it is to take it off again. You draw back from them you love, not because you don’t need or want them any more but because you’re not the right shape to fit with them.
