I said I did at the start of this conversation. And I reach into my back pocket, and I pass him a Philly Aquatic Center business card. Flipping it, Donnelly reads the question scribbled on the back. He stares at the words for a long quiet beat. Not much silences Paul Donnelly. “Shocked?” I smile. Donnelly glances up. “Just thinking how nuts you are. You took in a white trash baby and now you want white trash as your best man.” He never says white trash like he’s ashamed. He’s unashamed about almost everything. He just says it like it’s a fact. A statement. So I don’t need to assuage his
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