“Don’t tell me to calm down! I can’t keep doing this, James. It’s not just you and Evie. It’s me working a full-time job and coming here to iron your shirts and cook your dinner and then you coming home late or not at all! Yet you still won’t let me move in!
Why would you want to move in with and marry a man who acts like this anyways? That's your bad for going to someone ELSE's home and doing THEIR chores after work.
