(Of course, if the lean friend enters the bakery and eats a cinnamon bun as well, no one judges him for it, because, well, he’s lean. “Before I got on the plane,” as Roxane Gay writes in Hunger, “my best friend offered me a bag of potato chips to eat, but I denied myself that. I told her, ‘People like me don’t get to eat food like that in public,’ and it was one of the truest things I’ve ever said.”)
