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Jim Kwik
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January 28 - February 5, 2023
Finding your passion is not about choosing the right path or finding the perfect professional destiny. It’s about experimenting to see what ignites your joy. Passion comes when we rediscover our authentic, alive self, the one who has been muted and buried beneath a pile of other people’s expectations.
To sum it up, passion is what lights you up inside. My passion to learn was born out of such a struggle that it became a major part of my life’s identity.
Purpose, however, is about how you relate to other people. Purpose is what you’re here to share with the world.
It’s how you use your passion.
For example, someone who wants to remember people’s names should value relationships and their connection to other people. Your behavior has to support your values in some way, or there is no drive for it.
Value is to be a great consultant to translate complex topics to clients and co-workers and add value to the project I am working on
Be a role model to my family and friends and make a difference in their personal lifes
Reasons that are tied to your purpose, identity, and values will sufficiently motivate you to act, even in the face of all of the daily obstacles that life puts in your way. The healthy 70-year-old doesn’t go to the gym at 4:35 A.M. because he likes it—he goes because maintaining his health so he can continue to be with his family is motivation enough to him, even though he would much rather sleep in.
Consider your passion, your desired identity, and your values: How can they create the basis for your reasons?
I don’t have the energy to spare. And I can honestly say that I don’t suffer from FOMO (fear of missing out). In the last few weeks I’ve been invited to a handful of social and work gatherings but declined because I’m clear about my purpose and motivation in spending time writing this book. I’d love for you to join me in celebrating JOMO—
While it’s great to be open-minded and consider options, when you say yes to something, you need to
be careful that you’re not inadvertently saying no to yourself and your own needs.
What is motivation? Motivation is a set of emotions (painful and pleasurable) that act as the fuel for our actions.
Pain can be your teacher, if you use it and not let it use you.
Now, here is the more exciting part. Write down all of the benefits and advantages you will receive from learning the skills and techniques in this book.
The reality is that you do motivation. Ultimately, motivation is a set of habits and routines, guided by your values and your identity, that you carry out every day.
Here are my 10 recommendations for generating limitless brain energy. For each tip, please rate, on a scale of 1 to 10, how much attention you are putting into that specific area. You may be surprised by your answers.
1. A GOOD BRAIN DIET
Refined sugar, for example, contributes to impaired brain function, leads to inflammation, and can even cause depression (something you might want to consider the next time you reach for a tub of ice cream to contend with a tough day).
2. BRAIN NUTRIENTS
In my podcast episode with Max Lugavere, author of Genius Foods,
3. EXERCISE
4. KILLING ANTS Dr. Daniel Amen, a clinical neuroscientist, author of the bestseller Change Your Brain, Change Your Life,
5. A CLEAN ENVIRONMENT
6. A POSITIVE PEER GROUP
Motivational speaker Jim Rohn says that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.
7. BRAIN PROTECTION
8. NEW LEARNING
9. STRESS MANAGEMENT
Whenever we experience stress, a hormone known as cortisol is released to alleviate the physical rigors of stress on our bodies.
for example, the prefrontal cortex—and more activity in the primitive parts of their brain that are focused on survival, such as the amygdala.
Recent findings suggest that sleep plays a housekeeping role that removes toxins in your brain that build up while you are awake.10
“When the brain is awake and is at its most busy, it puts off clearing away the waste from the spaces between its cells until later, and then, when it goes to sleep and doesn’t have to be as busy, it shifts into a kind of cleaning mode to clear away the waste from the spaces between its cells, the waste that’s accumulated throughout the day.”
Fortunately, you have a tool available to you at all times that can help you deal with this: meditation. The benefits of meditation are numerous (and there are many, many books out there that detail them), including everything from boosting immune function to decreasing anxiety to actually increasing your gray matter.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON Fueling your brain is fundamental to becoming limitless, and we have lots more to get to in order to make this happen. But first, let’s stop and focus on a few things from this chapter: Put a shopping list together for all the brain foods you don’t currently have in your home. I realize that not all of these foods are going to be compatible with your palate, but really try to include as many as you can. Then take this list with you to the store. Spend some time identifying your ANTs. What limitations are you placing on yourself? Give yourself a few minutes with this. What are
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A small simple step (S3). The tiniest action you can take to get you closer to your goal. One that requires minimal effort or energy. Over time, these become habits.
a cue, a craving, a response, and a reward.