The Rudest Book Ever

by Shwetabh Gangwar

Everyone that you fight is not your enemy and everyone who helps you is not your friend.

all they are is human, with slightly more conviction in their beliefs and a drive that lead them to commit those great actions.

You are a fan of their extraordinary acts and the products of their talents, not their lives.

There is no person on this planet with whom you would agree on everything one hundred per cent.

There is no person on this planet with whom you would disagree on every single thing.

There is no person on this planet from whom you cannot learn something new.

The element of honesty is what separates blind following and admiration.

The more dishonest a person is, the more you want to become like them.

the more honest a person, the more you admire them. The less honest a person, the more you follow them.

any person who talks honestly about themselves becomes human in your eyes—even though they are famous.

And once you have normalised it, why would you want to escape from it? It’s a routine to you now.

Do they have internet? If yes, then they can fix themselves if they want to.

There is plenty of help out there—books, videos, therapy, sensible people—if they need it. Stop pitying people.

If you want to know who somebody is, focus on what they do every day, what actually fascinates them, and how they behave around people.

The most important step—once you leave, never ever look back.

In a relationship, self-respect should never be compromised or replaced by anything.

Self-respect comes from self-control.

relationship should be looked at as a partnership between the two people.

The supremacy of self helps maintain the thin line between addiction and dependency.

The focus is more on the duty of providing help and how that makes you feel. I feel so happy that I helped them.

We live in a world that largely celebrates knowledge, not intelligence.

Knowledge is a great thing when the objective is to make you think.

Knowledge is what enhances your intelligence, because it is food for your thought.

Problem-solving should be a habit, not the last resort.

If you know what you want in life, then you wouldn’t care about what others have.

Assumptions exist where data doesn’t.

An intelligent person is one who works on becoming self-aware.

The only difference is the wrong ones are easily available, and you have to fight for the right ones.