CHANGING EMOTIONAL DEPRIVATION 1. Understand your childhood deprivation. Feel the deprived child inside of you. 2. Monitor your feelings of deprivation in your current relationships. Get in touch with your needs for nurturance, empathy, and guidance. 3. Review past relationships, and clarify the patterns that recur. List the pitfalls to avoid from now on. 4. Avoid cold partners who generate high chemistry. 5. When you find a partner who is emotionally generous, give the relationship a chance to work. Ask for what you want. Share your vulnerability with your partner. 6. Stop blaming your
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