We are not saying that you have to settle for spending the rest of your life with a partner who only generates a response of 0–5 in you. We feel that there has to be some chemistry for the relationship to work. But, if there is only romantic chemistry, it almost certainly will not work in the long run. There are plenty of 6’s, 7’s, and 8’s out there. One of them might bring you the deep fulfillment of an intimate, loving relationship, perhaps for the first time in your life.