ABANDONMENT LIFETRAPS IN A RELATIONSHIP 1. You avoid intimate relationships even with appropriate partners because you are afraid of losing the person or getting too close and being hurt. 2. You worry excessively about the possibility that your partner will die or otherwise be lost, and what you would do. 3. You overreact to minor things your partner says or does, and interpret them as signs that he/she wants to leave you. 4. You are excessively jealous and possessive. 5. You cling to your partner. Your whole life becomes obsessed with keeping him/her. 6. You cannot stand to be away from your
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