Checking in with your kiddo after a major meltdown is crucial. Toxic tantrums are discombobulating and confusing for everyone, and your kids get just as triggered as you do. However, their nervous systems are still developing, which means that chronic stress or frequent ruptures may have long-lasting detrimental effects. In addition, triggered kids are more likely to push buttons, which is not what you’re going for, especially when you’re working so hard to not lose your shit again. Reconnecting with parents and other caregivers is a powerful and effective way to help children get calm and
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