You’re not a bad parent, and while your shit losses are absolutely your responsibility, they’re not your fault. This is a crucial distinction that bears repeating: There’s no reason to blame yourself for your temper, but it’s time to step up and make some changes. Remember, you’re a mere human, trying to raise another mere human, which may be the hardest thing any of us ever do. It’s hard at different times and in different ways for different parents, but it’s hard for everyone.
