“I have to give him plenty of warning on how to deal with you lot. Hence why I asked him to come early.” “Preparation is always important in all areas of life, son.” Did my dad just make a gay sex joke? There is such a thing as overcompensating, and my parents like to reiterate they’re one hundred percent okay with my sexuality. As if pushing me to come out isn’t enough of a hint. I shudder. “I am not touching that one with a ten-foot pole.” Dad laughs.