Step 4: Put a star by four or five behaviors that you believe would be highly effective in reaching your aspiration. Step 5: Circle any effective behavior that you can easily get yourself to do. Be realistic. Step 6: Find the behaviors that have both a star and a circle. Those are your Golden Behaviors. Step 7: Design a way to make your Golden Behaviors a reality in your life. Do your best with this step. I haven’t yet explained how to systematically design a solution, so use your intuition for now.
