what matters now, like I said, what we have to safeguard above all else, is Isla feeling like they are in control of their own identity and how they express this. That is the middle, beginning, and end of it. “If she says one day she identifies as female, then use female pronouns. If he identifies as male, use male pronouns. Is that confusing? It doesn’t matter. Your opinion doesn’t matter, because your opinion should never infringe on someone’s right to their own identity.
