“So, for some reason, people think that with genders, there are only two colours. Girl and boy. But really, you can be one of the million little shades in between. And sometimes you can be one shade one moment and another shade the next. And that can be confusing, but what can hurt the most is if you tell yourself there are only two options, even if they don’t feel good at all. Maybe you don’t know what shade you are right now. That’s okay! That’s okay, Isla. I can call you whatever you like. You can wear whatever you want to make it fit with what you feel.”