Yangsze Choo

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The worst part about death is forgetting the image of the beloved. It’s the final robbery, the last betrayal.
Yangsze Choo
Before the advent of photography, I think this was very true. People had no way to exactly recollect the faces, unless you had an unusually good visual memory. In fact, I suspect that nowadays most people’s visual memories are actually of photographs; that is to say, you remember X because you can bring up in your mind the photo of X that always hung in the hallway (or you took on your phone!). In the absence of photographs, portraits were treasured. The walls of museums are lined with paintings of people who wished to be remembered. Even poor people tried to preserve their memories through charcoal sketches, or by employing itinerant artists to make a likeness. If you think about it, the word “likeness” implies a substitute. It must have been terribly sad to realise that you had nothing left, not even a very clear image of what a person looked like.
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Mary-Lynne
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Mary-Lynne
Other stories have also had characters, generally young when the beloved died, who had fears & issues around forgetting the beloved's appearance. I appreciate your cultural explanation too.
Dustin
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Dustin
Yes, the cultural explanations are most fascinating to me of all. Thank you!
Emma Knights
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Emma Knights
I would love to turn this line into a song and also the line about food in metal coffins!
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