I'm Thinking of Ending Things

by Iain Reid

The idea that we are better off with one person for the rest of our lives is not an innate truth of existence. It’s a belief we want to be true.

Forfeiting solitude, independence, is a much greater sacrifice than most of us realize. Sharing a habitat, a life, is for sure harder than being alone. In fact, coupled living seems virtually impossible, doesn’t it? To find

“Depression is a serious illness. It’s physically painful, debilitating. And you can’t just decide to get over it in the same way you can’t just decide to get over cancer. Sadness is a normal human condition, no different from happiness. You wouldn’t think of happiness as an illness. Sadness and happiness need

Most people want to get married. Is there anything else that people do in such huge numbers, with such a terrible success rate?