Have you had someone apologize to you, a fellow driver or a life partner who has said, ‘I’m sorry you feel I was rude to you?’ When I get those apologies I want to shove the apologizer into a ravine. That is because this program merely formalizes what we all spiritually intuit, that there is a way to make an apology, and that apologizing for ‘making a person feel’ something, instead of for what you did is not a mea culpa, it’s a you-a-culpa.

