Also there are numerous roles. In my life I have been assigned roles as: a father, a boyfriend, a work colleague, a road user, a gym member, a son, a friend. In each of these roles I now have designated ideals and if ever conflict arises, or I feel discontent, I can mentally or literally check the list. This is a more conscious way of living. It is also highly practical. It’s not just a wing and a prayer. It is often said that you read a manual
