Here is what I would have preferred to hear from my husband—unequivocally and without shame: “I am sexist.” That was the headline of a New York Times opinion piece by Emory University philosophy professor George Yancy, who took it upon himself, late in 2018, to implore men to join him “with due diligence and civic duty, and publicly claim: I am sexist,” to take responsibility for misogyny and patriarchy.3

