I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual

by Luvvie Ajayi Jones

Humans are flawed beings. Some flaws are mere wrinkles, some are cracks, and some are the Grand Canyon.

Their superpower is being able to make any good news you have into something about them, and you will eventually realize that they really do not wish you well.

My love motto is that my relationship should push me to be a better person. My partner should encourage me, challenge me, seduce me, and build me.

In the words of my beloved cousin (in my heart) Kerry Washington, “I’m not interested in living in a world where my race is not a part of who I am. I am interested in living in a world where our races, no matter what they are, don’t define our trajectory in life.”