DEFECTS AS A CHILD OR TEENAGER 1. It’s hard for me to say what my defects were. I just didn’t have much to offer anyone. No one really wanted to be with me. I have always felt that there is something about me that people don’t like. I can’t really say what it is. It is something about me that other people can see. Boys in particular didn’t like me. When I was a teenager, boys didn’t ask me out.