INFJs have a strong desire to be accepted just the way they are. They want others, as do all people, to understand their strengths, faults, and foibles and love the whole package. This kind of whole-person acceptance is only possible when INFJs tell the truth and reveal their true thoughts and feelings. Most of the time, this kind of complete self-disclosure only happens with safe people - extremely close friends, family members, and coworkers whom INFJs know they can trust.
