The trailer wasn’t a nice place to live, and it was important to her that we all do our part to make it look as nice as possible. If you put the dishes away incorrectly, she would pull them all out of the cupboard. “Do this over!” she would yell. “Do it right this time.” If she saw a bit of clothing coming out of the drawer of the dresser, all the clothes would be on the ground. “Refold everything,” she would order. “Start again.”