“I give back,” she said. “Anytime I get a job, I want to give somebody else a job.” Even if she doesn’t create the job for someone, she puts in a word. She spreads love and fortune, which is also key to my own thinking about success: You can’t keep what you don’t give away. What you want to receive in your own life—whether it’s opportunity, love, or grace—you have to put it out there first.