Conversation Casanova: How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro

by Dave Perrotta

Include her in the conversation by infusing questions about your topic.

We communicate best through stories. Stories are what hook us in and make us feel things.

You can also make the story more interesting by involving her and pausing at the right times.

It Should Help You Connect With Her The point of the story is to help you connect with the girl. So, your stories should be about you or something that happened to you. Otherwise, they won’t do much in the way of connecting.

It Should End With a Bang

So I guess sometimes, you have to scare yourself a little bit. You have to destroy your life to let the next great thing happen. And that’s okay. Because you can build it back up better than you ever thought possible.

Use the aspects of good storytelling (tell it as if you’re living in, involve her, and use pauses) 2) Tell a story that attracts her (it should be about you and showcase your attractive qualities. 3) Nail the structure (introduction, development, climax, and resolution)

Action tip: Write a short story about something that has happened to you. Include the 4 elements of the story structure. Then, tell it aloud to yourself as if you were living it.

Maybe you don’t go on for a half hour on random, self-absorbed tangents – but perhaps, from time to time, you focus a little too much on yourself and what you can gain, rather than truly engaging the other person and adding value to the conversation.

Here’s the thing: in order to connect with a woman, you need to remove the focus from yourself and put it on her. You need to be present and engaged in the conversation.

In order to be truly successful with women you need to become a man who loves women.

Accept Responsibility

Understand that Women Are Emotional

Remember: women care more about the way you make them feel than your “stats” and accomplishments. That is the secret to connecting. When they feel that you understand this, they’ll relate to you more and mentally put you in the group of guys who “get it”.

Appreciate Her Beauty

Have a Mission Outside of Women