Mason and Kreger point out that the falsely accused partner may hold memories of the happy times they shared and the essential positive qualities of the relationship, combined with empathy for the suffering borderline. But they need to understand that the borderline doesn’t feel the same way, as the disease, by its very nature, denies simultaneity and involves dissociation or loss of emotional memory. “Splitting may keep the borderline from” seeing their partner “as a whole person with good and bad qualities.” All of which contribute to organizing group bullying, calling the police, or
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