She was finding, as a result of talking to a wide range of students, that there were a small number of men who were pathological assaulters, and that it was the violation of consent, itself, that was the motivator. But at the same time, she discovered a large percentage of young men who were confused by women. They didn’t understand women’s messaging. They were confused by women’s conflicts about sexuality. They couldn’t figure out how people got from one place to another in the trajectory of a sexual relationship.
