See that cute girl/guy at the coffee shop? Normally you’d say NOTHING to him/her and then go home and kick yourself for the rest of the afternoon thinking about what you should have said. Instead, give yourself 20 seconds of courage! Be scared before and scared after, but give yourself those 20 seconds to say: “Hey, I need to get back to my friend/work, but I saw you from across the room and think you’re really cute. Can I buy you a cup of coffee sometime?” Or, if that’s too forward, give them a drive-by compliment: “I just wanted to let you know that you have a great smile. ” You’ll never
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