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Move someplace (eventually) with more women you match up to.
Rather than focusing on gold medals, coaches set numerous small, achievable goals that the athletes focused their work toward, and then built from there.
Video games are by their nature mostly very long and hard tasks of increasing complexity that, if you try to do all at once, produce miserable failure and the urge to throw your controller through the television.
Both approaches are about removing sexual pressure and replacing it with fun.
It’s very simple: every time you enter your mating market (or any social situation for that matter) do this: Tell yourself that your only goal is to meet new women and have as much fun with them as possible.
Every man on earth who is successful with women has hundreds, if not thousands, of stories about setbacks, moments of ignorance, mistakes, and bad experiences.
if you see setbacks as evidence that you are a failure, or as a threat to your identity in some way, then you are going to stop trying to improve so you can avoid any setbacks, and you will never get anywhere except exactly where you are.
if you look at your actions from a learning perspective, it’s much easier to deal with failures because you see them as opportunities.
“In training, there is only winning and learning. The only way to fail is to not train.”
Don’t just move on, move forward.
Mating is a lifelong journey. Success comes from learning, improving and, most importantly, having fun along the way.
Mating education is woefully inadequate (for men and women), and though this book has helped to lay the foundation for a solution, it is only a foundation. There is SO MUCH more that men can learn.
