Psycho-Cybernetics: Updated and Expanded (The Psycho-Cybernetics Series)

by Maxwell Maltz

A human being always acts and feels and performs in accordance with what he imagines to be true about himself and his environment.

They recognize that every person is a child of God and is a unique individual who deserves some dignity and respect.

But the biggest secret of self-esteem is this: Begin to appreciate other people more; show respect for any human being merely because he is a child of God and therefore a “thing of value.” Stop and think when you’re dealing with people. You’re dealing with a unique, individual creation of the Creator of all. Practice treating other people as if they have some value—and surprisingly enough your own self-esteem will go up.

You are somebody, not because you’ve made a million dollars, or drive the biggest car on your block, or win at bridge—but because God created you in His own image.

You alone are responsible for your responses and reactions. You do not have to respond at all. You can remain relaxed and free from injury.