Reality Transurfing Steps I-V

by Vadim Zeland

Free energy passes through the body in two opposing currents. The energy of intention is blocked when you are stressed.

To get rid of stress, wake up and drop importance.

If reducing importance is not possible there is no point in wasting energy trying to relax.

Do not try and accumulate energy just let it freely pass through you.

High energy levels depend on wide central meridians. Performing energy exercises is an effective way of strengthening the meridians.

Use other

people’s inner intention to achieve your goals.

Allow others to realise their inner intention. The act of allowing will stir outer intention which will cause your inner intention to be realised seemingly of its own accord.

As a rule people are so consumed with what they want to get from others that they do not bother to find out what those other people want.

All it takes is for you to ask yourself what the focus is of your partner’s inner intention.

to refocus your inner intention on realising your partner’s inner intention.

When you show interest in another person, you fulfil their inner intention. Where does their feeling of fulfilment come from if not from you, and having realised that, who else would that person then be interested in if not you?

Unless you are a film star, people look at you as a potential partner for business, friendship or love. Fanatics are extreme in their fascination with the stars, swooning over them, gobbling up every tiny detail of their lives, but it would never enter their mind to consider the celebrity as a potential partner in a personal

In everyday communication it does not matter how interesting you are. What matters is how well the other person thinks you would suit them in a relationship and this is what they are evaluating whilst communicating with you.

your positive qualities and failings are not your partner’s prime concern. The sense of self-worth they experience when talking to you however, is their utmost priority.

first and foremost they are evaluating to what extent they will feel significant standing next to your perfection.

Outer intention works by allowing the inner intention of others to be fulfilled. You sacrifice putting your own personality in the spot light to allow the personality of another to shine; and as a result you receive the very thing you sacrificed.

you will only become genuinely significant in the eyes of others if you abandon your inner intention and allow the inner intention of others to be fulfilled instead.

let go of the inner intention to receive and substitute it with the intention to give. It is very easy to do.

arrange things in such a way that

the person wants to help you. Arrange things so that it corresponds to their goals and aspirations. Ask yourself how you can connect what you want with another person’s needs.

So, work out how the task that is important to you might improve that person’s sense of self-worth. Then, present the task to them in the context of how it would increase their stature.

To fulfil outer intention you have to arrange things in such a way that

people act in your interests whilst thinking about their own concerns and doing what is important to them.

almost always serves as the motivation for inner intention. Everyone is trying to emphasize and increase their sense of self-worth to one degree or another and by one means or another. If you need something from someone all you have to do is think of how doing what you require of them would increase their sense of self-worth. This is what they call issuing a challenge.

If a person accepts the challenge in the context of their self-worth they will carry out your will as if it were their own and you will have their commitment

You will never persuade someone that they are in the wrong. They may listen to your accusations but are unlikely to fully acknowledge being in the wrong, even if they agree with you superficially.

How do you feel when you are criticised? You probably either refuse to take the criticism on board or try to convince yourself that the criticism is well-founded. In neither case do you actually accept the criticism outright unless of course you have developed your own personal guilt complex in the meantime.

Criticism makes the heart an enemy of the mind – encouragement makes it an ally.

Encouragement is a creative force; criticism a destructive force.

If you win the argument, you can consider yourself defeated. Even if your opponents have formally acknowledged that you are right you can be sure that in their minds they will have found numerous informal arguments in their own favour. Whatever the case, the one who loses the argument takes a knock to their self-esteem and who delivered the blow? The one who succeeded in proving their own point of view.

You would not want to punch another person in the face, after all; so why would you possibly want to deliver the same blow

to their feeling of self-worth? People often offend each other in this way and the insult always has a hidden quality to it because the hurt is taken silently. People do not like to demonstrate their need to assert their self-worth openly. We are all supposed to have a sense of worth automatically, so no-one wants to reveal that they have to fight ...

There is one sure way to set a person against you which is to let them know how much better you are then they. “Do not make idols for yourselves and do not create enemies” is the most important slogan you could have for creating relationships that go with the flow. Avoid injuring other peoples’ sense of self-esteem like the plague. Make it a kind of taboo. In so doing, you will save yourself from endless problems and niggling unpleasantries you will never know the reason for because of the hidden nature of the blow to self-worth.

What the person arguing with you is really trying to do is protect their own sense of worth in one way or another so meet them half-way. Agree with what they are trying to say. By agreeing you will have given the person what they wanted enabling you to calmly express your own point of view without having to insist or prove anything. When you take this approach you not only go with the flow; you implement outer intention. The results will be beyond compare and far superior to anything you could have achieved via sophisticated intellectual contrivances.

It is essential that the tone of the conversation be set to one of agreement from the very beginning. If the first thing a person utters in response to your opening phrase is “No”, you can consider that trying to convince them of anything is totally out of the question. The person you are talking to has taken a different turning and there is no chance of them now going with the flow together with their conversatio...

Tell the person that they were right about what they said and you will see the result. You are not obliged to say anything, but do it anyway.

You cannot achieve mutual understanding without attuning to the frequency of your partner. The term “attuning to the frequency of your partner” is of course purely customary.

Giving your full attention is the most important aspect to successfully attuning to another’s fraile. Without the power of attention there can be no question of even beginning to attune to each other’s frequencies.

So, the only way of finding a common language and

understanding your partner’s wavelength is to lead the conversation within the context of the other person’s interests.

A person’s name is the simplest key to their frequency.

“I do not need anything from you. I am just so pleased to see you!” This is one of the main reasons people adore their pets. In dealing with people, if you want to inspire a sense of fellow-feeling in someone, show them how happy you are to see them.

You can easily win a person’s favour by asking for their help with some difficulty or asking them to do you a small favour.

Your partner will feel more significant if you convey that you need their help and give them an opportunity to express themselves, emphasizing their significance.

Aside from life itself, people cherish nothing more dearly than their sense of self-worth. The most powerful hunger, aside from feeling physical hungry, is being hungry for power. This naturally represents the extreme and final stage of the battle for self-worth.

Never tell anyone to their face that they are wrong.

In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind.

Give yourself pardon (in the sense of absolution) for your shortcomings and you will feel as if a huge weight has been lifted from your shoulders as the excess potential disappears and the energy of intention is released.

Confidence that is based on comparing oneself with others is pure excess potential,