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An object or characteristic that is attributed particular meaning attracts objects with the opposite qualities.
Polarisation creates a magnet for problems and attracts everything that you feel an aversion to. Everything you find irritating will follow you. Everything that is highly undesirable happens. There is no mysticism in this. It is quite natural.
All you have to do is follow the main rule of Transurfing: be yourself and let others be themselves. You have to loosen your grip and give the world free reign.
Instead, consciously change your relationship to the situation in accordance with the Transurfing rule.
when something does manage to throw you off balance it always seems to happen as if to spite you.
The nightmare is that pendulums not only gulp down conflict energy they somehow make people behave in such a way that they give out even more of this type of energy.
To clearly demonstrate how the pendulum works we will take the simple example of a pedestrian who you follow on
the street and then overtake. As soon as you take a step to the left preparing to over take the person in front of you they take a spontaneous step in the same direction blocking your way. So you try and overtake them to the right but they inadvertently move in the same direction again.
Intimate relationships and sex in particular normally have their place in a tight, closed circle and consequently the need for confirmation that “we are ok” increases. If a person does not currently have a partner or if they have never had a partner they start frantically searching for an example of how things should be.
The main reason for separation is ultimately lack of fulfilment in the sexual relationship. Everything else is either a consequence of the lack of fulfilment or an excuse when people do not want to
acknowledge the true cause of their problems.
Sex is the only instance when you have to become totally immersed and forget about roles totally. When sex is natural and normal it is a game played according to rules that you make up yourselves without giving a moment’s thought to how others do it or how it is supposed to be done.
love is not sex and sex is not love.
Whether you like it or not sex is more about aggression than affection.
Frailing: let go of the intention to receive and replace it with the intention to give and you will receive the very thing you let go of.
I repeat that all you need to do is reject the pendulum rule, replace it with the Transurfing rule and then direct your intention in accordance with the first principle of Frailing.
Far from everyone leads an active way of life in this context and many people do not have a partner at all. But fear of loneliness and being different cause people to buy into the illusion.
True reality lies in the fact that you can break the line and go your own path. It just is not that easy to have this awareness.
Those who break the pendulum rule either become leaders or renegades. Some make their way to stardom whilst others end up social outcasts. The difference between them is that the former know they have the right to break the pendulum rule whilst the latter still have doubts.
It is true that many people will be adverse to the idea that they are caught up in a matrix.
The human mind is capable of creating complex structures and mechanisms, building whole cities and researching the world we life in and yet in the context of awareness man has not developed much further than the animal kingdom.
Like in nature, if a person lives in relatively isolated conditions they are consciously responsible for their actions. As we know, enlightenment was reached by those who isolated themselves from society. However, once a person becomes an element of a structure to a large degree they are asleep which
does not appear to hinder the mind from engaging in advanced technological production.
When a person becomes an element of a larger structure they are obliged to follow the pendulum rule. As a result, an unavoidable contradiction arises between the individual’s personal interests and the conditions imposed by the structure. The worst thing is when a person is not aware of this and obediently toils and sweats away for the system unable to take the
time to lift their head up, look around and become conscious of what they are doing.
All you have to do is wake up and observe
the scene through the eyes of an observer whilst you are still on the stage. Then it immediately becomes evident who are the pendulums favourites, the slackers and the pranksters and adherents who follow the rule.
The most important criteria is not how well a person carries out their work so much as how correctly they do it from the point of view of the system. The pendulum is most concerned with stability. And so first and foremost you should direct your actions towards supporting the system’s stability.
On the one hand, pendulums try to organise the world driving people into structures similar to the Matrix. On the other hand, the Indigos even out the pendulum’s domination as if thereby fulfilling a predetermined mission. The children’s behaviour is aimed at challenging established systems. Whenever they find themselves squeezed in to fit the boundaries of conditioned stereotypes they strive to break free.
the true goal of any living being, whatever its nature, can only be achieved in its natural habitat. Any structure subjects the goals of its elements exclusively to its own interests.
When you drink alcohol you get energy on credit. Alcoholic induced euphoria is like
an energy advance and the subsequent hangover the return with interest. You always have to give back more than you borrowed. Pendulums never give away energy for free without profiting somehow from the transaction.
Drinks with a low alcohol content make you feel relaxed. The pendulum sucks the energy in little bits. Stronger drinks on the other hand evoke a rush of energy: “Let the vodka be drunk! Let the music flow!” However, the pendulum lends the energy at high rates of interest. Soon enough things tilt the other way: “Let the vodka flow! Get drunk on the music!” After the euphoric high come...
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The further a person gets into “debt” the crueller the payback will be!
In this condition the free energy of the debtor is at the pendulum’s full disposal. The person quite literally feels as if ticks had dug their claws into his energy body in the area of the heart chakra. The pendulum declares the ultimatum: “either have something to drink or the torture will continue”.
When a person drinks he is again credited energy with a portion of energy but what inevitably follows is an even heavier payback. A person’s heart can stop beating, as is often
the case. The pendulum will leave a person in peace only when there is nothing more than can be taken from them and whether they survive it is a matter of luck.
The drunks we see living on the street are not people who have fallen into moral degradation as we tend to think. These poor souls are people who were unable to calculate their resources properly and pay
off their credit in time and to this day remain in debt. They take out loan after loan which becomes increasingly difficult to pay off. And it all started so well with holiday cheer! The process of the fall is not noticed in its initial stages but then it gathers force and speed creating an inevitable and irreversible snowball effect. The nature of an induced shift is quite treacherous and anyone can be drawn towards the centre of its vortex.
There are also other types of credit with lower interest rates such as tobacco, coffee, tea, non-alcoholic drinks and chewing gum. You may wonder what on earth chewing has to do with anything.
All the “debtor’s” thoughts are focused on receiving the next portion of energy – credit. They are not capable of thinking about anything else because the pendulum will not release their attention.
The capture of the arrow of intention can also be observed in the phenomena of game or internet addiction (dependency). A huge number of people have become so addicted that they are only able to feel comfortable when they are sitting in front of a computer screen. Should someone who has succumbed to this kind of addiction actually tear themselves away from the screen for an hour or two they will go into remission and begin to experience all the symptoms of withdrawal.
There is only one way to pay off all your debts and walk away from the grievous bank: change the script and scenery.
You cannot tame a pendulum, let
alone control it. However, it is possible to use the qualities of a pendulum to your own interests.
When you are dangling on a pendulum’s hook think only of the positive.
In other words, for a certain period of time you have to switch your attention to something else so that the game does not even enter your head for a moment. This is the only way you can save yourself from being drawn into the vortex of the induced transition.
Stars are born but they are lit up by pendulums. You could be as wise as King Solomon himself or create a stunning masterpiece but no-one will ever learn of it unless a powerful pendulum sweeps you up.
In order to become a star in your field you have to know how to exploit the features of a pendulum. Have you never wondered why certain works that were immensely successful at some point in the past lose their popularity despite the fact that they retain their unique features?
