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When you learn to love yourself you will find your goal. Once you are securely on the path to your true goal you will commit many good deeds and be better able to help those who
are poor and unfortunate along the way because you will be attracting greater resources and opportunities into your life.
If the idea of needing to take care of others originates somewhere outside yourself, whatever the source, it represents a foreign goal. If the impulse to take care of others comes from deep within your heart, then the goal may be yours.
There is only one way of finding your innermost goal which is to reduce importance, turn your back on pendulums and appeal to your heart; to love yourself first and foremost and to take care of yourself. This is the only way of finding the path to your own goal.
The mind’s mistake is that it tries from the very outset to evaluate how realistically achievable the goal is and calculate in advance all the ways and means to achieve it.
Miracles only happen when you break the conventional stereotype by thinking about the goal rather than the means to achieve it.
From the point of view of Transurfing, there is no miracle here. You have simply attuned to the frequency of the target line, decided to have with intent, and outer intention has carried you to a life
line where new opportunities appear and new doors open which you would never have suspected existed when your vision was limited to the previous life line.
Why is it that respectable, family men are transformed into beasts when they enter a war? It is because their mind succumbs to the power of a pendulum.
doing. The mind of a member of a crowd is literally sleeping because it has been caught in
the pendulum’s trap. You might remember how the induced shift works.
The only one hundred percent guarantee of reaching a goal is if it really is your own innermost goal and you head towards it through your door.
Ask yourself the following question: what does your heart long for? What would make your life feel like a continual holiday?
The list of ‘what abouts’ goes on forever. You cannot begin to imagine how modest your requests are in comparison to what you could have if you went your own path, through your own door.
An opinion is the result of the mind’s intellectual activity. Your relationship to something comes from deep within your heart, and only this can serve to discern between your personal and foreign goals.
A goal will lure you by being unattainable. If the goal is difficult to achieve try letting go of it and observing how you feel afterwards. If you feel relieved in any way it means that it was a foreign goal. If, however, you feel indignant or find yourself wanting to protest it means that the goal may well be yours.
The only reliable criteria you can use when choosing your goal is inner tension, the heart’s negative reaction to a decision that has already been made by the mind.
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not think about the means of achieving your goal until you have firmly decided on what the goal should be. If you cannot see yourself clearly in your imagined role it might be that you are not ready for it yet.
The heart has no idea what to do with money because it is not capable of abstract thinking. The thing is that your end goal has to be comprehensible to the heart. The heart has to know what you want to buy with the amount you have requested, be it a house, casino or private island etc. It’s not a matter of the means, but the heart must like it.
The stereotype of the unattainable goal is the most deeply ingrained and so you will need to be patient. The mind will be trying to find the answer to different question: “But how do I achieve it? Here your heart needs to tell the mind to “be quiet. That’s not your problem. We are choosing a toy!”
All society is constructed on pendulums and so you are left with no choice other than to seek out your own pendulum or disappear to the Himalayas.
It is easy for hermits to “converse with Eternity” when they are living in distant solitude but as soon as they return to the aggressive environment where pendulums function they instantly lose their inner balance and meditative detachment.
It is the task of the mind to process all external information, at the same time as paying particular attention to the inner voice.
Active searching for your path will lead to nothing. Do not worry about it; wait and observe. If the instruction for the
search has been given, the right information will present itself. A moment will come when you will receive certain information that inspires your interest. At this point simply pay attention to your inner voice. Do not let the mind get involved.
There is no need to actively search for information; simply widen the diapason of external information you receive and observe.
I am looking for the thing that will make my life feel like a holiday.
People often abandon the thing they love doing for financial reasons. They divide their activities into leisure and paid work.
However, a pendulum can never determine your niche in life because it has absolutely no interest in your personal happiness.
Do not hurry and never regret the time it takes you to make your choice. You will waste a lot more time and effort if you rush in and make a choice you later regret. Choosing your goal and door can take months.
Primarily this is conscious awareness.
when you are busy doing something that brings you closer to your goal you are filled with inspiration you can boldly claim that this is the door meant for you.
Intention is what transforms a desire into a goal.
Your ideal life line will contain minimal obstacles as long as you do not lean too hard on importance.
Go after your goal in the same way that you go to get the post from the letter-box.
Do not think about the problem; act, create momentum, irrespective of how things might turn out, and then the problem will be resolved in the process.
All the time that you are insisting on something, pressuring for something to happen, you are preventing outer intention from realizing your goal in harmony with the alternatives flow;
Unlike auto-suggestion, with intention the decision has been made and the decision is final. Nothing is open to discussion. The goal will be reached. That is self-evident. Any doubts will fall away of their own accord as you continue widening the limits of your comfort zone.
You do not need to include any scenarios in your target slide that depict you in the act of achieving your goal. The target slide must simply depict a final picture of what life looks like to you once the goal has already been achieved as if you already have it.
You convince the mind not that everything will go smoothly but that everything is already going smoothly. Visualisation of the current link in the transfer chain should keep pace with what you are doing now and what you will be doing just one step ahead of that. In convincing yourself that everything will come to favourable fruition you continue to hold the deadly grip of control. Relax the grip. Do not think about problems that have not happened yet; just go calmly with the alternatives flow.
How do you ultimately believe in the impossible in order for it to become possible? Well, you cannot. That is impossible! What a stupid question. You just cannot! So I return once again to what I have said above. There is no way of successfully persuading, convincing or forcing yourself to believe something. Put these meaningless cares to one side and get back to doing something more beneficial i.e. the process of putting one foot in front of the other in the direction of your goal.
Do not worry if the goal seems unattainable. It might be difficult for you to imagine how your goal could be at all possible to achieve but really, it is a useless concern. All you have to do is make your order properly and leave the rest to the waiter. Many people who have achieved phenomenal success all say that in hindsight they would never have believed
that they were capable of achieving such amazing results. When the heart wants to strive towards the goal and the mind is worried about the means, mutual understanding between them is blocked....
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This is why I so insistently recommend that you stop thinking about possible scenarios of how events might develop.
On the path to your goal, the will to have must prevail. This is what you should focus on above all else, and the remaining aspect of intention, i.e. the will to act, must be purified to the maximum from the undesirable elements of desire and importance.
At this stage, only the target slide should occupy your thoughts. The target slide should only include the final picture of your life once the goal has been achieved without any additional scripts. Turn this slide over in your mind continuously; live inside it. Your comfort zone will begin to expand and the parameters of your thought energy will become attuned to the target life line.
Most importantly, whatever happens, never put all your eggs in one basket.
For example, do not leave your previous job until you are guaranteed of finding a new one. Do not slam doors behind you or burn bridges; be careful and prudent. Even if you are absolutely certain that the goal and the door are your own, it is still better not to make any sudden movements that could, in the case of misfortune, leave you without a crust of bread and a roof over your head. No-one is immune to misfortune.
Let go your grip of control on the situation. If something does not turn out as you expected do not hurry to correct the situation; instead, try and see the unexpected event in a positive light that shines in your favour. At first it may not be obvious but in the majority of cases you can begin to see the truly positive nature of the event. People upset themselves unnecessarily; for in reality, things really are not too bad at all.
