There's a "romantic" side to this but it also makes Abnegation feel 'colder' than they should really be. A Puritanical-esque view of affection. (Husband and wife only show physical affection for the p…
This is why I love their love story more than any other. They always get to me. Their love is so profound, every look, every word, every time they touch. Everything is important, heavy.